Skip to main content

What first came to your mind?

My daughter and I often play a game of questions and answers some nights back. You know how it is, I ask her a question, she answers and then asks hers or serves me my question back. We talk about a lot on nights like these; friends, happy moments, regrets, future plans, dreams, God's plan for our lives and arguments.

So on Monday night, reading from a card I asked her "What first came to your mind when you first saw me?" I just wanted to go and sleep.
"That's a really weird question" she made a an equally weird face to show how deep her thoughts were. "I don't remember ever not knowing you, but my earliest memory of you was hearing sing to me from my sleep and I didn’t think much but I felt loved and I felt love. What did you think when you first saw me?"

"Joella, I'm sleepy and it's a really long story". I tried to dismiss her with a wave, as I made to get to bed.
"Well, say it in three sentences. I'm all ears" she said sporting a puppy face.

"ok, the first time I saw you, I said to myself "who is this? Look at this girl, I'm going to love her forever" Letting out a deep sigh, I continued. "I still remember it like yesterday".

"Dad are your crying?"

"What? No! I'm just sleepy" I said as I hurried to bed.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The Tale of Roasted Maize and Sour Olives

The tale recounted is based on true events Some weeks back, on Nigeria’s Independence Day to be precise, I planned to spend the whole day indoors. That I did, I spent the day watching movies and lazying in bed. It turned out to be a quiet day all through, nothing spectacular until I received a call. An Uncle* of mine who lived in the same compound with us called me on phone and said I should meet him on his side of the house. It was about 4 pm so I trudged to his apartment, expecting to be sent on an errand. When I got there, he simply gave me a cob of roasted Maize and some Olives and that was that. It was very funny, almost awkward. I carried this funny look on my face that made his wife laugh at the situation. He just encouraged me to give it a try. I took huge bite off the cob, shaving off a large swathe of roasted Maize seeds from the cob, and then went for the Olives which turned out to be sour. Dang! The sensation is beyond description, especially when the Olive...
2 comments
Read more

Nigerian banks: So much hype, so little groundwork.

This events chronicled herein truly occurred as the world spun past this morning. Today I took it upon myself to pay up all individuals and groups I was indebted to. This involved visiting three big time Nigerian banks. These transactions which could have simply been carried out with my PC, had to be done the old school way because online transactions are not common (no one I know has ever used the system), hence it could n''t be trusted. Aside the long queues and the ages it took to get served, these banks are are quite in contrast with what you'd see in the slick adverts on CNN or NTA (Nigerian Banks do ads on CNN). The staff are not that friendly, and you can waste a lot of productive time just waiting for your turn ( I kill time watching TV whenever I visit a bank) In one of the Banks I visited, (this bank boasts of ''Pan- African ess'' ) the bulk room where I went to pay in money was desecrated with graffiti on the side boards. Yes! Graffiti, scr...
1 comment
Read more

Who did it?

Madam Shola had always been a very friendly woman ever since I knew her - which was like all my life. One of my funniest memories of her was when her humour made its finest appearance. It was a surprisingly rainy Sunday morning some Decembers ago, and we had just closed from church. My wife and I were dashing to the car hand in hand as it drizzled. "Mr and Mrs Lovebird", madam Shola called. I recognized her voice and stopped to say hello to her. "Good morning ma" "Sam, look at you! You're glowing" she exclaimed, turning to my wife she added "Mercy, you're doing a great job, I give you an A". She said using her right forefinger to make a swoosh in the air. We all laughed. First of all, my name is not Sam neither is it Samuel. Madam Shola had never called me by my name. Never. I'd gotten tired of correcting her and never bothered anymore. Sighting mercy's protruding belly she opened her mouth in mock surprise. "I see wh...
Post a Comment
Read more